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My grandparents ladies and gentlemen.

I wanted to share a little bit about the people I admire deeply and feel incredibly grateful for.

Many years ago, my grandmother and her husband were vacationing in Egypt with some friends. While they were on their way to a destination, they were hit by a car. My grandmother later woke up in the hospital to the shocking news that her husband had died. Soon after, she had to return home and tell the heartbreaking news to her two children who had been waiting for them.

Life has a way of bringing both unimaginable sorrow and unexpected grace.

Some time later, a wonderful gentleman named Walter arrived at a dance class where he would meet her. Before long, they fell in love, married, and together they had the person who today is my father.

I cannot fully understand the pain and struggle my grandmother must have faced, but I deeply admire the courage and strength it must have taken to open her heart again and choose love once more.

Working in the wedding industry is interesting in this way. Every day we witness beautiful celebrations of love, yet we also know that life is unpredictable. Circumstances change. People face loss. Sometimes love disappoints us, and sometimes it feels like it fails.

I once listened to a podcast where wedding photographers said that if you are part of the wedding industry, you have to believe in love.

And I do, even if it’s hard sometimes.

Spending time with my grandparents reminds me that love is rarely perfect. They still quarrel. They still have their moments. Sometimes love, after many years, looks very different from the romantic images we carry in our minds—even compared to what we imagine in our own generation.

We often hope love will always feel effortless and beautiful. And sometimes it is. But the years pass, life unfolds, and two people continue growing side by side.

From my grandparents’ story, I see something deeply beautiful: love is not just a moment—it is a lifetime of choosing each other.

And when I look at their life, I see the result of that choice. Their son. Their grandchildren. A whole life that grew from the courage to love again.

It reminds me that love truly is worth it.

And this is one of the reasons I love photographing weddings. A wedding day is not just a celebration—it is the beginning of a story that will unfold for decades. It is the moment when two people decide to build something together, even without knowing everything that life will bring.

Being a wedding photographer means I get to witness these beginnings. I get to document the joy, the hope, and the promises made on that day.

And in my own small way, I want to be part of it—capturing the first chapter of stories that may one day look like my grandparents’ story.

A story of courage, perseverance, and love that continues to grow through generations.